The first thing we need to learn is to forgive ourselves for not being able to do everything we think we should do. Enough with the self-flagellation for ignoring a dirty kitchen floor, running behind on the laundry, having to send a belated birthday card, etc. (And this doesn’t even address all the stresses of a job!) Sometimes you can only manage the things high on your list of priorities and scrabble intact from one day to the next. But you must occasionally put yourself at the top of the list.
Give yourself a break, and do something that makes you feel pampered. Be kinder to yourself. It will help you feel more like you are living than just surviving. Everyone has their own outlets. Here are some of mine:
- Taking an afternoon nap
- Treating myself to some flowers
- Having a manicure/pedicure or facial
- Playing! (golf, going to a museum, dominos, Wii)
- Indulging a passion (playing my ukulele, making jewelry)
- Enjoying a favorite food and drink
- Connecting with a friend
- Buying myself a present
- Sinking into a bubble bath
- Curling up with a good book
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